Dating uncircumcised men
To circumcise or not to circumcise: that is the question.There is a long-running debate among public health officials and sex educators on the subject of the need for circumcision, with major studies lending evidence to both sides.while I oppose the circumcision of small boys who aren't able to make their own decision, I nevertheless prefer an adult male who is circumcised.
I’m sure he doesn’t want to be treated differently because of a little foreskin, so there’s no reason to stress over this! Removal of the foreskin also leaves the head of the penis — the most sensitive part of the male genitals — constantly exposed.Constant rubbing on clothing and exposure to temperature changes reduces the sensitivity and responsiveness of the nerve endings, creating the demand for more stimulation to trigger a pleasure response.So imagine my guilt for that double take after sex, potentially making my new boyfriend as self-conscious about the part of himself he'd only just shared with me as many women are about their bodies. The next time we were in bed, I tried to mention it casually. "Yeah, I'm uncircumcised," to which I replied, "I figured; I've just never seen one in real life." He looked at me sideways. " "I don't think I need to have done -- er, witnessed -- everything I know and write about," I said, which is true, but in the moment it felt like a feeble excuse.Maybe some people would keep that remorse to themselves, given its intimate source. He let me feel uniquely ignorant for a few seconds before informing me that he was used to this line of questioning.